I’ve been posting a lot of photos of life’s pleasures on my Instagram account lately - summer holidays in Europe, adventures in Bali, creative projects, and the sweet aspects of family and partnership. What is easy to underestimate is the extent to which these focal points are a choice. This single-sided story is often the downfall of social media, in which we see only the sweet spots, and can feel inadequate in comparison. So here’s a little more insight into the reality of